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What Happy Couples Do: Talk About Sex, Baby

Even in our day and age we are bombarded by images of women in lingerie on prime time television. We hear Salt-N-Pepa songs replay on the radio. Alyssa Milano often makes headlines for her activism surrounding breast feeding in public. In this context, it might be hard to imagine that anyone has difficulty discussing sex[…]

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Top 3 Relationship Killers

Check out my contribution to a prominent UK relationship advice website! Top 3 Relationship Killers You Need To Avoid – Tips From 62 Famous Experts Tip #1 – Not communicating One of the first things I always ask someone in individual therapy when they tell me about something that upsets them about their partner or[…]

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What Happy Couples Do: Argue

You are talking to your friend about your argument last night with your wife. After venting and beginning to feel a bit better, you ask him about the last time he and his wife argued. He can’t remember. In fact, in the past few years, he genuinely thinks they haven’t had a single fight. Sounds[…]

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What Happy Couples Do: Pick Their Battles

You’ve been married for 5 years. Your spouse comes home from work and leaves their coat on the chair even though they know it drives you nuts not to just put it in the closet. Then they bring up the furniture. This is the other argument you’ve been having for as long as you can[…]

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How To Survive A Break-Up: The Series Part I

Having difficulty coping with a recent break-up? I have some advice for you in this multi-part series I am writing for the amazing group practice I work for: Christine Fernandez & Associates. Part I is about managing feelings after a break-up. Check it out below. http://www.drchristinenyc.com/breakup/

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Go To Bed With Your Spouse

Sex is certainly an important part of any relationship, but it isn’t the only important thing that happens in the bedroom with your spouse. Literally going to sleep in your bed together lays an important foundation for your relationship. With the busy lives we lead, it is often hard to sync up with anyone. Your[…]