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Top 8 Relationship Problems Every Couple Faces

Relationship problems are very common among couples. Whether your relationship faces the axe or overcomes the hurdles and takes the smooth ride depends on how you handle the problems. On that note, it makes sense to understand the various types of relationship problems  and be prepared to handle the situation better when the problem arises[…]

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What Happy Couples Do: They Don’t Know Each Other

“When he said that, I just knew he was wondering whether I actually had that level of experience and I got so angry!” One of the biggest problems I see with couples who come to me for therapy is one or both partners assuming they know what the other is thinking. Assumption influences how you[…]

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What Happy Couples Do: Argue

You are talking to your friend about your argument last night with your wife. After venting and beginning to feel a bit better, you ask him about the last time he and his wife argued. He can’t remember. In fact, in the past few years, he genuinely thinks they haven’t had a single fight. Sounds[…]

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 How Do You View The World?

Two people are in the middle of the exact same, seemingly boring and rote situation. Their phones have started buzzing because they got a message from someone. Both of them get up to look at their devices to see what the text says. They both look briefly, put the phone down, and resume what they[…]

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Adult Attachment: Why It’s Not A Bad Thing To Need Your Partner

When most people hear about the concept of attachment, they typically have one of two associations. Some people, especially those who have studied psychology, immediately think of childhood attachment theory. Some people have very negative associations with attachment in adulthood, often flashing back to concepts like co-dependency in families and marriage and feedback to be as[…]

Anxious About Your Relationship? 4 Signs It May Be Cheating

Check out my latest guest blog contribution on Anxiety.org on what constitutes cheating on your partner, which is more of a grey area than you might realize. https://www.anxiety.org/relationship-anxiety-4-signs-of-cheating?utm_campaign=shareaholic  

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Signs Your Relationship May Be In Trouble

Feeling disconnected from your partner? Worried your relationship may be in trouble? Check out my latest guest blog post for one of the amazing group therapy practices I work for, Christine Fernandez & Associates, on some key signs your relationship may need help. http://www.drchristinenyc.com/relationship/

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There Is No One To “Complete” You

Still waiting on that perfect person to “complete” you? You might be waiting a long time. Check out my guest blogging article w/ the amazing practice I work for, Christine Fernandez & Associates, that addresses the importance of being a complete person before, during, and/or after a relationship. http://www.drchristinenyc.com/whole-person/